Have you ever said, "I wish I knew then what I know now?"

Avoid the Mistakes that Cost 67% of Marriages their Happiness....

You can't possibly know what to expect when things are unexpected...

Having a child is LIFE-CHANGING. It will change the way you think, and every decision you make thereafter. It will change your relationship and who you and your parter are at your core including the way you view the world.

Like any road trip, it's the smart ones who prepare for the journey by having a clear map, knowing their stop-overs, ensuring they have the right tools, and have taken the steps to ensure they are prepared for the journey.

Let's talk about how I can help you...

Parents must work together as a team to raise their child...

The way you work together during times of stress, the way you react to situations, the way you show love to one another, the way you make decisions together, all become a model for your child.

Your child will understand how to develop relationships based on the model of how you and your partner interact together...

When parents aren't a team, your child will:

  • starts playing one against another (mom says no, and then asks dad)
  • has trouble understanding how to develop relationships
  • struggles with stressful situations and will act out
  • will seek attention in various ways including tantrums, misbehaving, etc...

The #LegendaryFather Map includes learning how to work together to create a strong bond with one another and create a team that your child will use as a model for successful relationships growing up.

This is done through learning about:

  • the decisions that will need to be made in the first few years including how to pick a pediatrician, bedtime routines, etc.
  • shared decision making
  • supporting one another's decisions
  • how to handle other people's "suggestions"
  • balancing time with the baby and work schedules
  • monetary decisions- what needs to be bought and when...

I have spent over two decades working with children and parents. One of the biggest challenges I have come across is helping parents get past their own fears, needs and story that is often shaping their children in a negative way.

You see, even though we become parents, we are still simply people trying to figure it all out. We don't always know the right decisions to make, or how to make them, so we tend to default to our own story and use the fears and desires we have created for ourselves and impose them on our children (HINT: This also happened with your parents, to you).

As a result, many of our habits and hang-ups become our children's - you see the cycle doesn't end unless we make conscious changes to ourselves which as a result effect our children.

When working with expecting parents I focus on three main factors:

  1. Listen
  2. Shift
  3. Grow and Support

By following this path, I am able to help others see the story they have created for themselves, and then new perspectives. In other words, how would your life look if we looked at it from a different angle? Once you are able to see the possibilities, we are then able to focus on how we can grow to get ourselves to where we want and need to be in life! The resulting outcome is more happiness, excitement and in many cases security, which then sets a new path for your child.

I know how it feels because I've been in your shoes.

Everyone talks about the baby, but...

I've been there and while I was focusing on learning how to change diapers or helping my wife with breathing exercises for delivery, I wish I had a better understanding of how it would affect my relationship, work life, and home life.

Because I didn't, my marriage almost crashed and burned, and we would have become just another statistic.

I learned the hard way and dug deep to learn the skills that I am going to teach you so you are ready for what no one talks about. Every program and boot camp takes you through the steps of how to change diapers, what to do if your baby is crying, etc. And these are wonderful skills to learn...

What none of these programs do is take you though the 9 step #LegendaryFather Map to ensure your relationship with your partner is a supportive one leading up the birth of your baby and navigating the dreaded first year.

Only the #LegendaryFather Map prepares you by teaching you about:

  • Vision
  • Mindset
  • Tools and Resources
  • How to anticipate her (and the baby's) needs
  • How to understand and support her journey
  • and more!

Wouldn't you absolutely love to...

  • Have more confidence and be ready for what is about to happen
  • Have the know-how to support one another so you can maneuver the dreaded first year
  • Feel less overwhelmed and confused
  • Know how to anticipate your partner AND the baby's needs
  • Have planning tools for raising a child beyond the basics

She Gets an Ear, He Gets a Guide

Women are amazing! And what you are about to do in terms of bringing a life into this world is unprecedented.

But, I also know that you have a lot of concerns, fears, worries and more -and no one is talking about it. You're expected to "just do it" because millions of women have before you, but you know what? You haven't. And that's why you will be guided using specific coaching techniques.

You will have someone to listen with full undivided attention, to be present, and to offer guidance so you can be ready for the transition to becoming a mom.

Gentleman, there's a single goal here- to be a #LegendaryFather!
To be the man that can take care of a baby without any fear or uncertainty, and also how to be her rock during this time, to support her through her physical, mental and emotional changes, and be calm amidst the storm.

The only program that focuses on building a healthy relationship which leads to a happy child

P.E.

Your Coaching was a Tremendous Help!

“We feel a lot of shame and guilt about asking for help especially if we are used to standing on our own two feet. All of a sudden, we NEED help, and a lot of men are eager to help, but they wait until we ask. If we are in a mood because they didn’t just do it, they don’t understand and then we get into an argument.” 

P.E. New mom

Research shows:


-Approximately two-thirds of couples find that the quality of their relationship declines within five years of the birth of a first child. 13 percent of marriages end in divorce - Relationship Research Institute in Seattle


-40% of children in America are growing up without a father in their life.


-67% of couples report being unhappy in their relationship in the first two years after their child is born.


There is hope if you act now...

“Amazing! You are SPOT ON in term of what I went through! And because my husband didn't understand this, we got divorced. Now we have to share our child during the week, and I know there is still love down there somewhere, but there’s too much hate and resentment.”

V.O.
Mom

“You knew EXACTLY what I felt during the early stages of motherhood.”

F.B.
new mom

Program Breakdown

What You will get:

9-> 30 minute coaching sessions over the course of 12 weeks

E-mail support within 24 hours to answer any lingering questions and thoughts

Access to links and resources that will give you even more information to guide your baby questions

FAQ

  • How is this program different from others? Every program and boot camp takes you through the steps of how to change diapers, what to do if your baby is crying, etc. And these are wonderful skills to learn! What none of them do is take you though the 9 steps to ensure your relationship with your partner is a supportive one leading up the birth of your baby and navigating the dreaded first year so that you both share the same mindset in creating the experience of raising a child that you dream of.
  • Why should I invest in this program? According to the Relationship Research Institute in Seattle, 67% of marriages and parents report being terribly unhappy during the first two years after their child is born. How many times in your life have you said, "I wish I knew then what I know now?" This is your opportunity.
  • Is there a money back guarantee? No. As each person's experience is different. I give you the specific strategies and support, and and like anything in life, what you get out of it is what you put into it.
  • I work a lot and don't have a lot of time. How much time is involved? Aside from the phone calls, this will not add much time to what you are already doing to prepare. It will focus you on the tools and mindset so you don't have to waste time on the "I don't know" or uncertainty and fear that is taking up your time.
  • Is the program expensive? Not compared to other coaching programs, and far less than the time wasted in sadness depression or the cost of a divorce lawyer.
  • Are there payment options? Yes. There is a pay in full option or a breakdown into 3 easy installments.

Your investment

You invest tens of thousands of dollars and many years on you education for a career.

This investment is the most important one you'll ever make.
Your relationship and your child, as well as your child's future, are all dependent on the decisions you make now.

This offering is FOR YOU if...

  • You are feeling nervous about becoming a parent
  • You wonder what else you can do to prepare for life as a parent
  • You love your partner enough to ensure you are going to keep your relationship as a focus in your life
  • You like the idea of a clear step by step map that can guide you

You might NOT be a good fit if...

  • You feel doing the basics are enough
  • You feel you'll figure it out- how hard could it be?
  • You have no problem operating on very few hours of sleep and going about your life without any frustration
  • You have the ability to hire help and you plan to just "check-in" as a parent

Ready to get started?

I know that feeling when you are unsure about something. You go back and forth and wonder if you should. That's why I offer a no-risk free coaching session, so that you can feel more confident about your decision and clearly understand how I can help you.

CLICK HERE TO BOOK YOUR FREE CALL

Why now instead of later?

Don't take my word for it, join a few Facebook groups for new moms or new dads. Unfortunately you will read all about the problems and twists once great relationships have taken after having kids.

You don't go into the snow without a winter jacket

You don't drive a car without a seatbelt and airbag

You don't walk into a major exam without having studied

Don't walk into the biggest life stage change you'll experience without being as prepared as possible...

There's More...

  • If you schedule a free introductory call today, I will send you the "5 Secrets to Becoming a #LegendaryFather in 9 3/4 minutes" white paper which will immediately bring a HUGE smile to her face.
  • You'll get two free bonus calls after the baby is born to help with any concerns or guidance